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Question by .: What do you think of my break-up letter? Should I send it?
Tim,

You chose Michael. You chose Jason. You didn’t chose me. You’re wasting my valuable time. I’m ending this now. I’m done having you treat me like dog s*** while I treat you like a king. I’m done having you string me along when all I get is crap in return. I gave you 3 chances and you f*** it up every single time. I’m sick of it.

You know EXACTLY what you’re doing and you just don’t give a s***. You refuse to have “open communication” with me, and quit frankly I feel totally abandoned and neglected (again). It’s almost like you go out of your way to hurt me.

I’m not giving you a fourth chance. We our over.

1. you “love” michael
2. you do not love me
3. you want to live with michael
4. you dont want to live with me

5. you see michael every single day
6. you see me once a week (if im lucky) when we use to hang out 4 times a week a******
7. you f*** michael every single day
8. you f*** me once a week (if im lucky)
9. you dont give two s***** if you get hiv or std’s from michael.

10. you live close to michael when we live over an hour away from one another
11. we have a long-distance relationship

14. you want to play the field
15. i want (and deserve) a serious, committed, exclusive boyfriend who loves me as much as i love him…just like i wrote in my 8-page letter.

16. i shouldnt have to compete for your love, you should want it as much as i do
17. we need to break up because i dont want to get hurt anymore

18. just forget you ever met me
19. do not contact me because i will ignore you.
20. im done having you stomp on my heart
21. real love means setting you free and letting you go

22. why arent you texting ME for 4 hours while you’re hanging out with michael?
23 you’re stringing me along and I AM DONE WITH THIS B*******
24. you want to have it both ways. f*** you.
25. i treat a total stranger better than the way you treat me.

26. i deserve better then being ignored or called once a week, and being your back-up boyfriend.
27. a f****** hamster deserves better than that.

28. you keep lying to me – one minute you’re telling me that you cant hang out saturday because youre working at mcdonalds from 11am-5pm, then 20 minutes later you magically change your story and say youre working from 11am-2pm and you “might” be able to hang out

29. i done being “second place” in your life just in case michael isnt available. obviously you made him your priority over me

30. after 6 weeks of the silent treatment i was nice enough to give you a 3rd chance, then you ditch me on the day we got back together to smoke weed with michael. thats f****** unthinkable and rude.

31. im not youre back-up in case michael isnt available. you use to call me 5 times a day every single day, and now you SEE michael 5 times a day and want to move in with him and im supposed to settle for a f****** phone call once a week if im lucky? F*** YOU!

32. i have so much pent up anger inside over the way you treat me. i can not do this anymore

33. why did you even bother getting back together with me if youre just going to ignore me AND GO BACK TO YOUR OLD WAYS OF TREATING ME LIKE S***?

34. i shouldnt have to beg someone to call me evryday. You should want to call me and hang out more than twice a week….just like you do with michael you f****** a******.

35. youre f****** michael every single day and you want to move in with him, and you think im just going to be “cool” with that?

Did you even read the 8-page letter i sent you.

F*** YOU A******. IM SO F****** P****** AT YOU RIGHT NOW. THE BEST THING FOR YOU TO DO IS LEAVE ME THE F*** ALONE FOREVER.

36. im not gonna take this s*** anymore. we are totaly through

37. you lie to me saying that you and michael will “never see each other” if youre living together because you’ll both be so “busy.”

DO YOU THINK IM A F******* RETARD?? OBVIOUSLY YOURE GOING TO BE F****** THE S*** OUT OF EACH OTHER SEVERAL TIMES A DAY.

38. instead of looking for ways to hang out with me, youre looking for excusing not to hang out with me

39. im putting a permenant end to this right now

40. enjoy your life with michael, and all your other crystal-meth stripper boyfriend losers because im so f****** over being treated like s***. im seriously over it.

41. i dont want you to call me ever again …not now, not 2 months from now, not a year from now. Delete me from your life. (that shouldnt be too hard for you since you never call anymore anyways)… im not your back-up boyfriend when your other dates fail…and they will fail.

42. i dont want to know whats going on in your life

43. i dont want you to email me (shouldnt be too hard since you NEVER email me)

44. i dont want you to ever contact me ever again

45. if you do contact me i will

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What ever happened to face time?

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Question by kylie2222: Should I send this to my ex?
We broke up last weekend and we had been together for 8 months. This letter is really personal to me, so please don’t critisize. I was just wondering if i should “accidentally” send this to my ex. I haven’t talked to him since the day after the breakup, and I miss him to death.
Will this push him away? Or maybe touch his heart?
Here is the letter:

I’m writing this e-mail with no intentions of sending this to you ever.
I’m not going to be able to see you for the next 3 weekends for sure because you are busy. Next weekend is what would have been our 8 month anniversary. I don’t think I will be in a very good mood that day. Monday is valentines day. I’ve already given you my letter, I just wish you were mine. I’m afraid of you moving on. I’m afraid you will meet someone else before I get the chance to show you i’m the good ol’ me again. The girl you met that summer night making smores and breaking glowsticks with. The one that you would stay on the phone with for 5 hours talking about absolutely nothing. The one you invented triple wakeskiing with. The one that you sit next to against your car just looking up at the stars with. I wish i could go back to that night and re live it over and over again. I promise you that this has opened my eyes and my heart to who I truly am, and who I was all those summer nights. I’m back and here to stay. I just wish I could have the chance to show you. I’m scared to death of you moving on and not being allowed to talk to me. I’m scared to death that i’ll never get to kiss your amazing lips, and just look at your warm chocolate eyes and melt when you hold me in your arms again. I want more than anything for us to be the couple we were last summer. I don’t want to give up on that. On us. I’m that girl again. Not the dramatic, mushy gushy, corny girl I became. No. But the girl that laid down next to you and watched the fireworks on beach pond, and the one that held your hand as we walked through the trails on the island to get to the giant rocks to jump off of. The girl that almost drowned when we first kiss, and that girl who was carefree and happy. I’m back and I am never changing into that person I became ever again. I was a monster and this experience has shaken off all of that ugly, and brought back the real me. The real Julianne Pyne. It’s like i went blind for months and now I can really look back and see the monster I was. I hope it isn’t too late. I’m still always going to stay that girl you met in June. Together or not I will always be her. I want more than anything in this world to be able to prove this to you. I wish I could have the chance. Maybe I will someday. Whether it be too late or not. You will never see this message because if I send it it will probably drive you away in thinking i’m desperate in getting you back. But in reality, i’m not desperate anymore. I’m not going to beg and plead for you to take me back. That was the monster I was, and the girl I was in june would never do that. I just want it to be June. I want to fast forward 4 or 5 months so I can go back to Beach Pond and re live the best summer of my life. If i ever get confused about what I want to do in life, or anything like that I know I can go back to beach pond and think about the times we had there and that will remind me of the girl I was then, and how I will always stay that way. I hope that you will always stay that guy you were all those summer days as well. Don’t ever let anyone ever change you. The guy you truly are is the guy that I met at beach pond. never forget that. If you’re thinking you are losing sight of yourself, go back to the trask’s. You’ll remember. I hope someday I get the chance to prove this to you. I love you, and I always will. Whether you move on or not, I will always be in love with you [my boyfriends name]. Forever and Ever and Always. <3

Love,
[My name]

P.S.
This is the last letter and the last time i'm going to think about being afraid of losing you, and never getting you back.
The girl in juse, the real me, would let life take it's course and not dwell on the sad things that have happened and how I cannot change them or undo things.
That is exactly what I am going to do.

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Answer by Savannah Cerruti
Let me guess… Ur name is Julianne Pyne? (:

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Question by kylie2222: Should I send this to my ex?
We broke up last weekend and we had been together for 8 months. This letter is really personal to me, so please don’t critisize. I was just wondering if i should “accidentally” send this to my ex. I haven’t talked to him since the day after the breakup, and I miss him to death.
Will this push him away? Or maybe touch his heart?
Here is the letter:

I’m writing this e-mail with no intentions of sending this to you ever.
I’m not going to be able to see you for the next 3 weekends for sure because you are busy. Next weekend is what would have been our 8 month anniversary. I don’t think I will be in a very good mood that day. Monday is valentines day. I’ve already given you my letter, I just wish you were mine. I’m afraid of you moving on. I’m afraid you will meet someone else before I get the chance to show you i’m the good ol’ me again. The girl you met that summer night making smores and breaking glowsticks with. The one that you would stay on the phone with for 5 hours talking about absolutely nothing. The one you invented triple wakeskiing with. The one that you sit next to against your car just looking up at the stars with. I wish i could go back to that night and re live it over and over again. I promise you that this has opened my eyes and my heart to who I truly am, and who I was all those summer nights. I’m back and here to stay. I just wish I could have the chance to show you. I’m scared to death of you moving on and not being allowed to talk to me. I’m scared to death that i’ll never get to kiss your amazing lips, and just look at your warm chocolate eyes and melt when you hold me in your arms again. I want more than anything for us to be the couple we were last summer. I don’t want to give up on that. On us. I’m that girl again. Not the dramatic, mushy gushy, corny girl I became. No. But the girl that laid down next to you and watched the fireworks on beach pond, and the one that held your hand as we walked through the trails on the island to get to the giant rocks to jump off of. The girl that almost drowned when we first kiss, and that girl who was carefree and happy. I’m back and I am never changing into that person I became ever again. I was a monster and this experience has shaken off all of that ugly, and brought back the real me. The real Julianne Pyne. It’s like i went blind for months and now I can really look back and see the monster I was. I hope it isn’t too late. I’m still always going to stay that girl you met in June. Together or not I will always be her. I want more than anything in this world to be able to prove this to you. I wish I could have the chance. Maybe I will someday. Whether it be too late or not. You will never see this message because if I send it it will probably drive you away in thinking i’m desperate in getting you back. But in reality, i’m not desperate anymore. I’m not going to beg and plead for you to take me back. That was the monster I was, and the girl I was in june would never do that. I just want it to be June. I want to fast forward 4 or 5 months so I can go back to Beach Pond and re live the best summer of my life. If i ever get confused about what I want to do in life, or anything like that I know I can go back to beach pond and think about the times we had there and that will remind me of the girl I was then, and how I will always stay that way. I hope that you will always stay that guy you were all those summer days as well. Don’t ever let anyone ever change you. The guy you truly are is the guy that I met at beach pond. never forget that. If you’re thinking you are losing sight of yourself, go back to the trask’s. You’ll remember. I hope someday I get the chance to prove this to you. I love you, and I always will. Whether you move on or not, I will always be in love with you [my boyfriends name]. Forever and Ever and Always. <3

Love,
[My name]

P.S.
This is the last letter and the last time i'm going to think about being afraid of losing you, and never getting you back.
The girl in juse, the real me, would let life take it's course and not dwell on the sad things that have happened and how I cannot change them or undo things.
That is exactly what I am going to do.

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Answer by 13randon B
I’m sorry but you shouldn’t send it….. your letter appeals not only to the heart but logical thinking. Your breakup indicates his disdain for you and lack of confidence in you…..prove him wrong by actions not words

Good Letter though! I just think if he isn’t an intellectual, you shouldn’t send it!

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Question by .: What do you think about my break-up letter? Should I send it?
Tim,

I was really shocked and surprised with your phone call on St. Patrick’s day. I feel that you want it both ways. You want to have your cake and eat it too. I’m not your back-up boyfriend. I want to be a priority in your life. I don’t want to be second place. I don’t appreciate having you string me along (again). I shouldn’t have to compete for your love… you should want it as much as i do.

You were calling me 5 times a day, every single day, for months and now youre “SEEING” michael 5 times a day and want to move in with him!! …. and im just supposed to be “cool” with that?? …. and settle for second place ??? …. and settle for a f****** phone call once a week (if im lucky)? HELL NO!

I shouldn’t have to beg someone to call me everyday. You should *want* to call me and hang out. You should want to be my boyfriend.

I think the real reason you dont want to end it with me is because you know you’ll never find anyone ever again in your entire life as awesome as me. Someone who loves you and treats you like a king. I will never understand why you constantly decide to throw me away for these total losers. I’m done trying to figure you out.

The bottom line is you don’t want me.
You don’t love me.
You dont want to be my boyfriend (after a f****** year).
We need to split.

Even though I told you I had “trust” issues given your history of lying to me, you continue to lie to my face (again) saying s*** like: you and michael will “never see each other” if you’re living together because you’ll both be so “busy.”

DO YOU THINK IM A F****** R*****?? OBVIOUSLY YOURE GOING TO BE F****** THE S*** OUT OF EACH OTHER SEVERAL TIMES A DAY.

If you thought you had *any* chance with me at all, why the f*** would you even think I would be cool about having you move in with him?

One minute you’re telling me that you can’t hang out saturday because youre working at mcdonalds from 11am-5pm, then minutes later you magically change your story and say you’re working from 11am-2pm… so you “might” be able to hang out with me.

I’m done with the b******* and mind games. Who the f*** would put up with that? You give me no choice…

You use to love hanging out with me, but recently you are suddenly “too busy”… and you go out of your way “looking for excuses” not to hang out with me.

Everyone knows that suddenly being “too busy” is code for “interested in someone else.”

You don’t tell someone “I might fall in love with you” or “Maybe I’ll be your boyfriend.”

Obviously if you *want* to be with someone you will make it happen…just like you’re trying to make it happen with michael. I’m not stupid.

When I asked if you wanted to move to Mt. Morris because of michael, you responded “No, not exactly”….then a minute later you admitted you wanted to move in with him!! WTF!!

HOW CAN YOU JUST LIE LIKE THAT TO MY FACE? IT’S PATHALOGICAL LYING. I thought you were better than that.

The icing-on-the cake is that you didnt even make an effort to f****** call me AFTER I TOLD YOU that i missed having you call me every day. I feel like you totally threw me away again and discarded me like trash. I’m not giving you a fourth chance. You’re obviously more interested in pursuing a “relationship” with Michael than with me. You can’t have it both ways.

And it p***** me off when you refer to me as your sugar daddy. A sugar daddy would have left you a long time ago and would never put up with all your b******* drama.

Why did you even bother getting back together with me if youre just going to ignore me and call me once a week… AND GO BACK TO YOUR OLD WAYS OF TREATING ME LIKE S***?

You refuse to have “open communication” with me, and quit frankly I feel totally abandoned and neglected (again).

Why aren’t you texting ME for 4 hours while YOU are hanging out with michael? THE ANSWER IS OBVIOUS.

I gave you 3 f****** chances and im sick of it. I’m serious this time. We need to end.

Every single day that goes by is a day wasted where we could have bonded. You’re drifting further and further away towards Michael. Obviously you made him a priority over me. Now it’s time for me to find a new twink and make him a priority over you.

We need to end this, and f****** break up. I dont want you hurting me anymore.

And some relationship advice…if you want to date Michael the PROPER thing is to break-up and end our relationship BEFORE dating other people.

We need to mutually end this. And I mean a “permenant” break-up. I dont want you trying to crawl your way back into my life several months later after your s*** always fails…. or when you start feeling sorry for yourself when you realize what you’ve done. God gave you a brain like evryone else, and you KNOW exactly what you’re doing.

We use to spend hours on the phone every single day. We use to chill 4 times a week! That’s t
…that’s the Tim I knew and loved. Relationships are a two way street. I shouldnt be the one chasing, initiating, and making things happen all the time.

How the f*** do you think I feel when you’re “chasing, initiating, and making things happen” with Michael? F*** that s***. Nobody would put up with that b*******. You should have gone out of your way to apologize and “make it up to me” after I took you back from giving me the silent treatment (twice).

You knew this was my last week before I had to work full time, yet you would rather hang out with Michael. You didnt even care to call and see how my training went. You’re an a******.
I not interested in having any type of relationship with you while you are f****** Michael every single day, and “seeing” other guys. That just won’t work for me. I’m just not gonna be on the back-burner or second place in your life. I dont want to be your back-up boyfriend. And even if I decided to be your boyfriend, do you seriously think I would trust you after all this s***??

I’m monogamous and I don’t intend to date more than one person at a time just because that’s what you want to do. There are plenty of other twinks who would kill to have a loving boyfriend like me. And honestly, YOU should be the one chasing me.

I’m done with this s***.

I don’t believe in “open relationships” that so many losers in the gay “community” love to embrace. No thank you. Not interested. Good bye. Those “relationships” are based on a foundation of quick-sand and will always fail. I want something real. I’m not going to be forced into a “relationship” I don’t want to be in.
Think about it… how am I supposed to feel being in bed with you & making love to you, then knowing when you get up the very next day you’re going to be in bed with someone else f****** the s**** out of them (unprotected) and getting the s*** f***** out of you (unprotected)?

That doesn’t work for most people, and I don’t feel bad at all for expecting you to be faithful and committed to me. That’s called a normal & healthy relationship. “Friends-with-benefits” or “open relationship” (sluts) will never work for me.

So let’s end this mutually, and on good terms with no hard feelings. We’ll always have the good memories, but from now on I don’t want to know whats going on in your life anymore. I don’t want you to call me or contact me… not now, not 2 months from now, not a year from now. Delete me from your life. Forget you ever met me. This is *your* choice.

I already told you in my previous 8-page letter (which you obviously havent read) that I’m not…
..your back-up boyfriend when your other dates fail. You need to chose your priorities.

Life is all about choices and consequences. You chose Michael. You chose Jason. You didn’t choose me. You’re wasting my valuable time. We need to end this now with a “clean break” …a permenant break… for life.

Obviously that’s what *you* want and it’s what *YOUR* actions are telling me.

As you said, why would you want to be my boyfriend when you can get all the benefits of being my boyfriend without having to commit. I should have ended this b******* the first time you f***** me over with Jason.

I wish you well.

Good bye,

~Greg

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Answer by Stoner Girl
How many people have to say “yes” before you just go ahead and send it? Seriously sweetie, you’ve posted this same thing AT LEAST 3 times.

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Question by (♥) court (♥): How should i write a breakup letter with out hurting his feeling?
I have two friend that like me so i wrote their names down on a piece of paper and i had to draw which name came out first and it was first boyfriend i know from school. Im trying to write a letter but im stuck with the begin part of it. could you help me with this thank

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Just be mature about it and tell him in person.

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Question by LACY: is this a good breakup letter? does it get the emotion and feeling across? if not what else should i say?
So I guess by now you know I’m an introverted person and I can’t share my feelings and problems too well. I just hate to make my problems other people’s problems. I went against my nature and tried to show you once and now I’m trying again but for this time I’ve lost hope.

I tried to make this work, I tried so hard and I wanted it to work. I still do, but I guess its time to get my head out of the clouds and realized that it’s just a waste of time. You don’t seem to understand me, and likewise I don’t think I understand you either. I can’t go on like this- it’s too painful for me. I’m flawed- I’m sensitive and distant and there’s only so much inconsideration, lies, and undependability I can take.

These last few days I realized that your feelings for me and my feelings for you are completely different. You are one of my top priorities, but I don’t seem to even qualify as a priority to you. That’s fine, I guess. People have different views of what a good relationship is.
. This is so hard for me because I don’t want to loose you, but I can’t ignore the fact that it hurts more to be with you and not see you and know that you’d rather spend your time with others then be without you. At least without you I wasn’t confused- the boundaries we’re clear and I knew what I had and what I didn’t.
I’m so very sorry if I hurt you, I never ever wanted for that to happen, but I think you will be happier this way. I love you- I never lied about anything I said about you, it was all true but sometimes things just don’t work out the way you want them too. I’ll miss you, but eventually I’ll move on. I hope you find someone that makes you happy and that suits you better. I had a great time with you, but I guess everything comes to an end eventually.

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Out of respect for the other person, you should really try to tell him to his face.

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Question by BeLikeWater: Should I Call My Ex :cue dramatic sound clip:?
About a month ago me and my girlfriend, of 8 months, broke up. She came to the conclusion that I stress her out, after having a weekend where we did not talk. Admittedly we had begun fighting a lot prior to that. This relationship became long distance and then we started fighting over small silly things. Anyways, within the week she had begun seeing her ex-fiance. He is a douchebag. Prior to us, they were engaged and living together. He came home one day saying she had 3 days to move out, because he was seeing someone else for several months and they were in love. He affected her in many negative ways, the most drastic being the debt she accumulated from paying for all his shit.

Well, I was wondering what the community thought of me calling her now or within a few months? Should I just not call at all? I have been very good about not contacting her. She was removed from my phone, address book, and social accounts. We were originally going to talk the weekend after the breakup, but I canceled because I saw no point in beating myself up. After that I wrote her one letter saying I accept the decision she made. I did not grovel or beg.

Well let me know your thoughts.

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Answer by Jay Sharky
You shouldn’t call at all. Things didn’t go well so just leave that ship to be sailed by someone else. You’re just adding unneeded complexity to your life by doing so.

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