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“Sorry I didn’t return your calls, honey. I was in Europe. What’s your excuse for being a bitch?” Not realizing her boyfriend was backpacking in Europe for two weeks, girlfriend breaks up with him, cheats, tries to reconcile, and then breaks up with him again. Of course, he was surprised to find this whole process in his inbox when he got home.

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Question by .: What do you think of my break-up letter? Should I send it?
Tim,

You chose Michael. You chose Jason. You didn’t chose me. You’re wasting my valuable time. I’m ending this now. I’m done having you treat me like dog s*** while I treat you like a king. I’m done having you string me along when all I get is crap in return. I gave you 3 chances and you f*** it up every single time. I’m sick of it.

You know EXACTLY what you’re doing and you just don’t give a s***. You refuse to have “open communication” with me, and quit frankly I feel totally abandoned and neglected (again). It’s almost like you go out of your way to hurt me.

I’m not giving you a fourth chance. We our over.

1. you “love” michael
2. you do not love me
3. you want to live with michael
4. you dont want to live with me

5. you see michael every single day
6. you see me once a week (if im lucky) when we use to hang out 4 times a week a******
7. you f*** michael every single day
8. you f*** me once a week (if im lucky)
9. you dont give two s***** if you get hiv or std’s from michael.

10. you live close to michael when we live over an hour away from one another
11. we have a long-distance relationship

14. you want to play the field
15. i want (and deserve) a serious, committed, exclusive boyfriend who loves me as much as i love him…just like i wrote in my 8-page letter.

16. i shouldnt have to compete for your love, you should want it as much as i do
17. we need to break up because i dont want to get hurt anymore

18. just forget you ever met me
19. do not contact me because i will ignore you.
20. im done having you stomp on my heart
21. real love means setting you free and letting you go

22. why arent you texting ME for 4 hours while you’re hanging out with michael?
23 you’re stringing me along and I AM DONE WITH THIS B*******
24. you want to have it both ways. f*** you.
25. i treat a total stranger better than the way you treat me.

26. i deserve better then being ignored or called once a week, and being your back-up boyfriend.
27. a f****** hamster deserves better than that.

28. you keep lying to me – one minute you’re telling me that you cant hang out saturday because youre working at mcdonalds from 11am-5pm, then 20 minutes later you magically change your story and say youre working from 11am-2pm and you “might” be able to hang out

29. i done being “second place” in your life just in case michael isnt available. obviously you made him your priority over me

30. after 6 weeks of the silent treatment i was nice enough to give you a 3rd chance, then you ditch me on the day we got back together to smoke weed with michael. thats f****** unthinkable and rude.

31. im not youre back-up in case michael isnt available. you use to call me 5 times a day every single day, and now you SEE michael 5 times a day and want to move in with him and im supposed to settle for a f****** phone call once a week if im lucky? F*** YOU!

32. i have so much pent up anger inside over the way you treat me. i can not do this anymore

33. why did you even bother getting back together with me if youre just going to ignore me AND GO BACK TO YOUR OLD WAYS OF TREATING ME LIKE S***?

34. i shouldnt have to beg someone to call me evryday. You should want to call me and hang out more than twice a week….just like you do with michael you f****** a******.

35. youre f****** michael every single day and you want to move in with him, and you think im just going to be “cool” with that?

Did you even read the 8-page letter i sent you.

F*** YOU A******. IM SO F****** P****** AT YOU RIGHT NOW. THE BEST THING FOR YOU TO DO IS LEAVE ME THE F*** ALONE FOREVER.

36. im not gonna take this s*** anymore. we are totaly through

37. you lie to me saying that you and michael will “never see each other” if youre living together because you’ll both be so “busy.”

DO YOU THINK IM A F******* RETARD?? OBVIOUSLY YOURE GOING TO BE F****** THE S*** OUT OF EACH OTHER SEVERAL TIMES A DAY.

38. instead of looking for ways to hang out with me, youre looking for excusing not to hang out with me

39. im putting a permenant end to this right now

40. enjoy your life with michael, and all your other crystal-meth stripper boyfriend losers because im so f****** over being treated like s***. im seriously over it.

41. i dont want you to call me ever again …not now, not 2 months from now, not a year from now. Delete me from your life. (that shouldnt be too hard for you since you never call anymore anyways)… im not your back-up boyfriend when your other dates fail…and they will fail.

42. i dont want to know whats going on in your life

43. i dont want you to email me (shouldnt be too hard since you NEVER email me)

44. i dont want you to ever contact me ever again

45. if you do contact me i will

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Answer by Cheesemaster74
What ever happened to face time?

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Question by Nessie: I need help writing a break up letter to him?
I have been going out with him for about 4 weeks now. There are a few things to contribute to my break up with him.
1)not even a week and hes telling me he loves me
2)he wants to move states with me again after only a week or so
3)he goes days without showers
4)hes a chain smoker
5)hes dated a few of my friends who already dumped him before
6) he tells me all about his other relationships
7)he says me at a month is is longest one
8)hes 22 and doesn’t have a job and barely finished high school

and those are just reasons about him.
I on the other hand just don’t think I’m ready emotionally for a real relationship, I am only 18 and don’t think I should be worried about a relationship especially since I plan on moving in a year across country.

Please don’t go on saying I need to do this in person, I know but I just can’t.
I already have a bit written out but I need help.

__________,

It is very hard for me to write this letter. I was thinking to talk to you face to face, but I don’t do well with confrontation and feel as if this way will be easier to do, hence why I haven’t gotten in contact with you earlier. I decided to end up our relationship. It wasn’t an easy decision, I was thinking too long about it. This doesn’t work for me. I don’t feel as if I am actually ready for a real relationship. I don’t think I am emotionally ready for one, especially this one where you are ready to move for me, and to me this still is moving to fast. You say I love you like its nothing. Barley a week, not even, you say it. I just can’t do that, with my friends I can say it without thinking but just because I know where they stand in my life. I really enjoyed the time we where together. I would like if we can stay in touch, I am not using the term “Friends” since I know that it is going to be difficult.

I hope for your understanding. Sorry, if I hurt you, I didn’t want it.

All the best,

__________
One more reason I’m writing a letter to him beside I do not do confrontation is the fact that its hard for us to even get together. We live on different sides of town, he doesn’t even have a licence and I can barely get the car since its the family car, so it just makes everything a bit more difficult.

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Answer by A-List
You really shouldn’t send a letter. Face to face hurts, but letters will hurt him even more. You see, I was dumped over email, and it hurt more than if it would have been face to face. With a letter he can post what you said on the internet (I hope he isn’t that cruel though) or send it to someone. He may think that you didn’t care about him enough to even tell it to his face. I hope I helped

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Question by .: What do you think about my break-up letter? Should I send it?
Tim,

I was really shocked and surprised with your phone call on St. Patrick’s day. I feel that you want it both ways. You want to have your cake and eat it too. I’m not your back-up boyfriend. I want to be a priority in your life. I don’t want to be second place. I don’t appreciate having you string me along (again). I shouldn’t have to compete for your love… you should want it as much as i do.

You were calling me 5 times a day, every single day, for months and now youre “SEEING” michael 5 times a day and want to move in with him!! …. and im just supposed to be “cool” with that?? …. and settle for second place ??? …. and settle for a f****** phone call once a week (if im lucky)? HELL NO!

I shouldn’t have to beg someone to call me everyday. You should *want* to call me and hang out. You should want to be my boyfriend.

I think the real reason you dont want to end it with me is because you know you’ll never find anyone ever again in your entire life as awesome as me. Someone who loves you and treats you like a king. I will never understand why you constantly decide to throw me away for these total losers. I’m done trying to figure you out.

The bottom line is you don’t want me.
You don’t love me.
You dont want to be my boyfriend (after a f****** year).
We need to split.

Even though I told you I had “trust” issues given your history of lying to me, you continue to lie to my face (again) saying s*** like: you and michael will “never see each other” if you’re living together because you’ll both be so “busy.”

DO YOU THINK IM A F****** R*****?? OBVIOUSLY YOURE GOING TO BE F****** THE S*** OUT OF EACH OTHER SEVERAL TIMES A DAY.

If you thought you had *any* chance with me at all, why the f*** would you even think I would be cool about having you move in with him?

One minute you’re telling me that you can’t hang out saturday because youre working at mcdonalds from 11am-5pm, then minutes later you magically change your story and say you’re working from 11am-2pm… so you “might” be able to hang out with me.

I’m done with the b******* and mind games. Who the f*** would put up with that? You give me no choice…

You use to love hanging out with me, but recently you are suddenly “too busy”… and you go out of your way “looking for excuses” not to hang out with me.

Everyone knows that suddenly being “too busy” is code for “interested in someone else.”

You don’t tell someone “I might fall in love with you” or “Maybe I’ll be your boyfriend.”

Obviously if you *want* to be with someone you will make it happen…just like you’re trying to make it happen with michael. I’m not stupid.

When I asked if you wanted to move to Mt. Morris because of michael, you responded “No, not exactly”….then a minute later you admitted you wanted to move in with him!! WTF!!

HOW CAN YOU JUST LIE LIKE THAT TO MY FACE? IT’S PATHALOGICAL LYING. I thought you were better than that.

The icing-on-the cake is that you didnt even make an effort to f****** call me AFTER I TOLD YOU that i missed having you call me every day. I feel like you totally threw me away again and discarded me like trash. I’m not giving you a fourth chance. You’re obviously more interested in pursuing a “relationship” with Michael than with me. You can’t have it both ways.

And it p***** me off when you refer to me as your sugar daddy. A sugar daddy would have left you a long time ago and would never put up with all your b******* drama.

Why did you even bother getting back together with me if youre just going to ignore me and call me once a week… AND GO BACK TO YOUR OLD WAYS OF TREATING ME LIKE S***?

You refuse to have “open communication” with me, and quit frankly I feel totally abandoned and neglected (again).

Why aren’t you texting ME for 4 hours while YOU are hanging out with michael? THE ANSWER IS OBVIOUS.

I gave you 3 f****** chances and im sick of it. I’m serious this time. We need to end.

Every single day that goes by is a day wasted where we could have bonded. You’re drifting further and further away towards Michael. Obviously you made him a priority over me. Now it’s time for me to find a new twink and make him a priority over you.

We need to end this, and f****** break up. I dont want you hurting me anymore.

And some relationship advice…if you want to date Michael the PROPER thing is to break-up and end our relationship BEFORE dating other people.

We need to mutually end this. And I mean a “permenant” break-up. I dont want you trying to crawl your way back into my life several months later after your s*** always fails…. or when you start feeling sorry for yourself when you realize what you’ve done. God gave you a brain like evryone else, and you KNOW exactly what you’re doing.

We use to spend hours on the phone every single day. We use to chill 4 times a week! That’s t
…that’s the Tim I knew and loved. Relationships are a two way street. I shouldnt be the one chasing, initiating, and making things happen all the time.

How the f*** do you think I feel when you’re “chasing, initiating, and making things happen” with Michael? F*** that s***. Nobody would put up with that b*******. You should have gone out of your way to apologize and “make it up to me” after I took you back from giving me the silent treatment (twice).

You knew this was my last week before I had to work full time, yet you would rather hang out with Michael. You didnt even care to call and see how my training went. You’re an a******.
I not interested in having any type of relationship with you while you are f****** Michael every single day, and “seeing” other guys. That just won’t work for me. I’m just not gonna be on the back-burner or second place in your life. I dont want to be your back-up boyfriend. And even if I decided to be your boyfriend, do you seriously think I would trust you after all this s***??

I’m monogamous and I don’t intend to date more than one person at a time just because that’s what you want to do. There are plenty of other twinks who would kill to have a loving boyfriend like me. And honestly, YOU should be the one chasing me.

I’m done with this s***.

I don’t believe in “open relationships” that so many losers in the gay “community” love to embrace. No thank you. Not interested. Good bye. Those “relationships” are based on a foundation of quick-sand and will always fail. I want something real. I’m not going to be forced into a “relationship” I don’t want to be in.
Think about it… how am I supposed to feel being in bed with you & making love to you, then knowing when you get up the very next day you’re going to be in bed with someone else f****** the s**** out of them (unprotected) and getting the s*** f***** out of you (unprotected)?

That doesn’t work for most people, and I don’t feel bad at all for expecting you to be faithful and committed to me. That’s called a normal & healthy relationship. “Friends-with-benefits” or “open relationship” (sluts) will never work for me.

So let’s end this mutually, and on good terms with no hard feelings. We’ll always have the good memories, but from now on I don’t want to know whats going on in your life anymore. I don’t want you to call me or contact me… not now, not 2 months from now, not a year from now. Delete me from your life. Forget you ever met me. This is *your* choice.

I already told you in my previous 8-page letter (which you obviously havent read) that I’m not…
..your back-up boyfriend when your other dates fail. You need to chose your priorities.

Life is all about choices and consequences. You chose Michael. You chose Jason. You didn’t choose me. You’re wasting my valuable time. We need to end this now with a “clean break” …a permenant break… for life.

Obviously that’s what *you* want and it’s what *YOUR* actions are telling me.

As you said, why would you want to be my boyfriend when you can get all the benefits of being my boyfriend without having to commit. I should have ended this b******* the first time you f***** me over with Jason.

I wish you well.

Good bye,

~Greg

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Answer by Stoner Girl
How many people have to say “yes” before you just go ahead and send it? Seriously sweetie, you’ve posted this same thing AT LEAST 3 times.

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Question by tiredofitall: Good After Break Up Letter?
Just before the end I lent her 500 dollars. She said she mailed it to me but i never got it, something aint right. You think this is good?

“I actually planned on not ever seeing that last $ 500 when I gave it to you anyway, but thought I would give it a shot. I missed a weeks pay and could of used it back in November when my taxes were due. So really no big disappointment. I mean really, why should this $ 500 by any different than all the other money I gave you?…Just telling you this because the post office by now would of had the M.O. tracked, something just isn’t right, but who cares at this point…If you ever get the money back, keep it, you need it more than I do…

My only regret now is that I ever met you and got to know you, that was my biggest mistake, I can thank xxxxxxx for that… and of course I know the real reason why you ended it, but I will leave the details alone, let me just say this, it wasn’t what I expected…You know what would be great, if there was a way that you could erase 2 years out of someones life, I know for sure that these last 2 would surely be erased out of mine…

I guess it would of been better telling you all this in person or at least on the phone instead of doing it cowardly in an e-mail, but knowing you, you would find a way to not let me do either one…and truthfully, I would rather not waste my time even trying because really I have more important things to do…”

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Answer by Cara
it’s good closure,
thts 4 sure.
i convinced 1 of my friends 2 send sumthin like this 2 her ex,
nd it did help her really vent.
but, if u evr think tht newhere in the future
u mite want 2 b friends, or more, w/ this girl…
don’t send it.
if not,
i say go 4 it.

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Question by dinkylinker: I wrote this internet relationship breakup letter will it work?
regret to inform you that, under a plan for the periodic removal of unpleasantness from my life, I must terminate our online affair. This termination takes effect immediately, but only because I could not make it retroactive. While our cyber romance sessions were for the most part, competent, your constant use of “brb gotta pee” is a real turn off. Also, mommie says I need to spend less time on the computer. Slam dunk

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Answer by Sealed With a Smile
If that doesn’t work, honey I don’t know what will ;

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Question by dinkylinker: What do you think of my internet relationship break up letter?
I regret to inform you that, under a plan for the periodic removal of unpleasantness from my life, I must terminate our online affair. This termination takes effect immediately, but only because I could not make it retroactive. While our cyber romance sessions were for the most part, competent, your constant use of “brb gotta pee” is a real turn off. Also, mommie says I need to spend less time on the computer. Slam dunk

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Answer by KoolKid
wonderful, nothing better than it.

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Question by Jess: Breaking up with a guy?!?
okay so i need to write a 700 word breakup letter for english
the main reasons for the break up are cos the girl is like pretty rich and the boy is like living in poverty kind of..
and hes friends with black people and she is kind of racist.
They are 14
i REALLY don’t know how to say it in the letter.
It has got to sound like real life letter
(The chicks pretty shallow)
Thank you
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Answer by Blackcat
when you break up with some do it just like peeling off a band aid.To have the least pain for the shortest amount of time do it quick and fast and toss it in the trash.

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