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LAST TIME I’M GOING TO SAY THIS. THIS VIDEO WAS MADE A POSTED JUST DAYS AFTER THEY BROKE UP. AND TAYLOR DISCLOSED ALL THAT INFO A MONTH LATER. I UNDERSTAND YOU CANNOT HAVE A WHOLE FIGHT IN 27 SECONDS. THIS WAS SPECULATION ANYWAY. AND THE ONLY REASON THE PHONE CALL WAS 27 SECONDS IS BECAUSE TAYLOR HUNG UP. NO MOE “HE COULD HAVE WAITED” BECAUSE HE COULDN’T HAVE. THEN SHE’D BE COMPLAINING THAT HE FAKED HIS FEELINGS FOR A WEEK. SO PLEASE, LAY OFF OF ME. I’M SICK AND TIRED OF HAVING TO TAKE DOWN VIDS CAUSE I NEVER GET GOOD COMMENTS. LEAVE ME ALONE AND GO HARASS SOMEONE ELSE. we gotta tell Joe we still love him despite all this. watch this vid. www.youtube.com this tells what i think happened with Joe Jonas and Taylor Swift’s breakup. the magazines make him look like the bad guy, but frankly, i think it’s neither of their faults. tell me what you think about it (Updated 11/5/08) so tay just opened up about the breakup. and now she’s pulling a miley and talkin crap. she posted a myspace video holding a Joe doll going “this one even has a phone to breakup w/ other dolls!” i’m sick of the JB sabotage. notice that miley was saying Nick was a bad example to diabetics. she said he was controlling. and now tay’s joining. they know the boys may very well lose fans over this. all us true fans need to stick together and hold onto our boys. protect them from the haters. (Updated 11/16) Joe decided to blog about the breakup! and gosh guys, GIVE HIM A BREAK!: A LETTER TO OUR FANS Category …
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Question by Nessie: I need help writing a break up letter to him?
I have been going out with him for about 4 weeks now. There are a few things to contribute to my break up with him.
1)not even a week and hes telling me he loves me
2)he wants to move states with me again after only a week or so
3)he goes days without showers
4)hes a chain smoker
5)hes dated a few of my friends who already dumped him before
6) he tells me all about his other relationships
7)he says me at a month is is longest one
8)hes 22 and doesn’t have a job and barely finished high school

and those are just reasons about him.
I on the other hand just don’t think I’m ready emotionally for a real relationship, I am only 18 and don’t think I should be worried about a relationship especially since I plan on moving in a year across country.

Please don’t go on saying I need to do this in person, I know but I just can’t.
I already have a bit written out but I need help.

__________,

It is very hard for me to write this letter. I was thinking to talk to you face to face, but I don’t do well with confrontation and feel as if this way will be easier to do, hence why I haven’t gotten in contact with you earlier. I decided to end up our relationship. It wasn’t an easy decision, I was thinking too long about it. This doesn’t work for me. I don’t feel as if I am actually ready for a real relationship. I don’t think I am emotionally ready for one, especially this one where you are ready to move for me, and to me this still is moving to fast. You say I love you like its nothing. Barley a week, not even, you say it. I just can’t do that, with my friends I can say it without thinking but just because I know where they stand in my life. I really enjoyed the time we where together. I would like if we can stay in touch, I am not using the term “Friends” since I know that it is going to be difficult.

I hope for your understanding. Sorry, if I hurt you, I didn’t want it.

All the best,

__________
One more reason I’m writing a letter to him beside I do not do confrontation is the fact that its hard for us to even get together. We live on different sides of town, he doesn’t even have a licence and I can barely get the car since its the family car, so it just makes everything a bit more difficult.

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Answer by A-List
You really shouldn’t send a letter. Face to face hurts, but letters will hurt him even more. You see, I was dumped over email, and it hurt more than if it would have been face to face. With a letter he can post what you said on the internet (I hope he isn’t that cruel though) or send it to someone. He may think that you didn’t care about him enough to even tell it to his face. I hope I helped

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Question by &hearts ROXIE: is it bad to breakup with a letter?
I can tell my bf wants to not be serious with me, he seems unattached lately. but i know that neither of us have found the right words to say it yet. i think us being friends would be best, but i still want his kisses haha. but ya. i wrote this 2 pg letter that i want to mail to him. because we live like an hour away. and we never see eachother. should i do it, or is it mean to breakup through a letter? it’s not mean!

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nope

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Long story short, these are some old letters I found in a coat pocket which I had bought at an old clothing shop in the UK. Their correspondence between two woman. This letter is the last of the correspondence. I’ve figured out that they were lovers who had had enough of each other and were…
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Question by kylie2222: Should I send this to my ex?
We broke up last weekend and we had been together for 8 months. This letter is really personal to me, so please don’t critisize. I was just wondering if i should “accidentally” send this to my ex. I haven’t talked to him since the day after the breakup, and I miss him to death.
Will this push him away? Or maybe touch his heart?
Here is the letter:

I’m writing this e-mail with no intentions of sending this to you ever.
I’m not going to be able to see you for the next 3 weekends for sure because you are busy. Next weekend is what would have been our 8 month anniversary. I don’t think I will be in a very good mood that day. Monday is valentines day. I’ve already given you my letter, I just wish you were mine. I’m afraid of you moving on. I’m afraid you will meet someone else before I get the chance to show you i’m the good ol’ me again. The girl you met that summer night making smores and breaking glowsticks with. The one that you would stay on the phone with for 5 hours talking about absolutely nothing. The one you invented triple wakeskiing with. The one that you sit next to against your car just looking up at the stars with. I wish i could go back to that night and re live it over and over again. I promise you that this has opened my eyes and my heart to who I truly am, and who I was all those summer nights. I’m back and here to stay. I just wish I could have the chance to show you. I’m scared to death of you moving on and not being allowed to talk to me. I’m scared to death that i’ll never get to kiss your amazing lips, and just look at your warm chocolate eyes and melt when you hold me in your arms again. I want more than anything for us to be the couple we were last summer. I don’t want to give up on that. On us. I’m that girl again. Not the dramatic, mushy gushy, corny girl I became. No. But the girl that laid down next to you and watched the fireworks on beach pond, and the one that held your hand as we walked through the trails on the island to get to the giant rocks to jump off of. The girl that almost drowned when we first kiss, and that girl who was carefree and happy. I’m back and I am never changing into that person I became ever again. I was a monster and this experience has shaken off all of that ugly, and brought back the real me. The real Julianne Pyne. It’s like i went blind for months and now I can really look back and see the monster I was. I hope it isn’t too late. I’m still always going to stay that girl you met in June. Together or not I will always be her. I want more than anything in this world to be able to prove this to you. I wish I could have the chance. Maybe I will someday. Whether it be too late or not. You will never see this message because if I send it it will probably drive you away in thinking i’m desperate in getting you back. But in reality, i’m not desperate anymore. I’m not going to beg and plead for you to take me back. That was the monster I was, and the girl I was in june would never do that. I just want it to be June. I want to fast forward 4 or 5 months so I can go back to Beach Pond and re live the best summer of my life. If i ever get confused about what I want to do in life, or anything like that I know I can go back to beach pond and think about the times we had there and that will remind me of the girl I was then, and how I will always stay that way. I hope that you will always stay that guy you were all those summer days as well. Don’t ever let anyone ever change you. The guy you truly are is the guy that I met at beach pond. never forget that. If you’re thinking you are losing sight of yourself, go back to the trask’s. You’ll remember. I hope someday I get the chance to prove this to you. I love you, and I always will. Whether you move on or not, I will always be in love with you [my boyfriends name]. Forever and Ever and Always. <3

Love,
[My name]

P.S.
This is the last letter and the last time i'm going to think about being afraid of losing you, and never getting you back.
The girl in juse, the real me, would let life take it's course and not dwell on the sad things that have happened and how I cannot change them or undo things.
That is exactly what I am going to do.

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Answer by 13randon B
I’m sorry but you shouldn’t send it….. your letter appeals not only to the heart but logical thinking. Your breakup indicates his disdain for you and lack of confidence in you…..prove him wrong by actions not words

Good Letter though! I just think if he isn’t an intellectual, you shouldn’t send it!

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Question by GothicDraconian: How would you cope with this break up letter?
I just broke up with my girlfriend and she wrote me this letter. I just don’t understand : (…… I mean I really don’t understand just watch ok,

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Answer by The New Guy
teh vid is whack! XD

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I have been feeling cluttered!!!! My mind is foggy, cluttery, i feel disorganized…so I started doing some research online and came across this book called “Clear Your Clutter with Feng Shui” by Karen Kingston-author of “Creating Sacred Space with Feng Shui”. This book already has made so much sense to me..I just started it yesterday (Mar 7 2008) and I started reading it right away. I fell asleep with the book in my hands! My eyes could not stay open! So I come to realize I have a lot of crap! My goodness! and my excuse is always “just in case” which she talks about in the book. I’m a “just in caser”! I started with my closet and came across a sweater and said well, “just in case” and my son looked at me and said “mom, remember what she said?” and I laughed and threw it in the donate pile! This will be my first video of the book and I will follow up on my progress. She also puts sample letters from her readers and how her book has helped them. I believe this will trigger me to the next level in my businesses as well! Please leave me comments and let me know your views on this!

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Question by Gustavo: Girlfriend broke up by letter, now wants to get back together?
So we were together for 2 years, im 16 she’s 17 and today she broke up with me by letter. The letter said that she still had strong feelings for me, but she didnt feel like she was treating me right. About a month ago she said she wanted a break for 2 weeks because she was busy (although she wasnt too busy to talk to other friends while ignoring me and going on her xbox) then after the break was over she pretty much ignored me, i tried calling and texting her but she wouldnt answer back. She would tell me to go hang out with my friends during lunch almost every day, we werent spending time together, only at passing periods which is only about 3 minutes. Well today she gave me the break up letter (which i found really disrespectful that she could not do it to my face) and i didnt really cry, i mean yeah i was a little sad but hey things happen. Well about an hour ago she texted me saying she still loves me and needs a month to find herself. Now im thinking that this is just stupid and that if she were sure she loved me she wouldnt be doing all these things. Im just so confused but angry at her, i think i should just break it off with her if she’s gonna be like this. What would any of you do in this situtation?Are there any red flags in those whole story?

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Seriously dude leave her alone she is playing games and if she really cared she wouldn’t of broke up with you.

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Question by .: What do you think about my break-up letter? Should I send it?
Tim,

I was really shocked and surprised with your phone call on St. Patrick’s day. I feel that you want it both ways. You want to have your cake and eat it too. I’m not your back-up boyfriend. I want to be a priority in your life. I don’t want to be second place. I don’t appreciate having you string me along (again). I shouldn’t have to compete for your love… you should want it as much as i do.

You were calling me 5 times a day, every single day, for months and now youre “SEEING” michael 5 times a day and want to move in with him!! …. and im just supposed to be “cool” with that?? …. and settle for second place ??? …. and settle for a f****** phone call once a week (if im lucky)? HELL NO!

I shouldn’t have to beg someone to call me everyday. You should *want* to call me and hang out. You should want to be my boyfriend.

I think the real reason you dont want to end it with me is because you know you’ll never find anyone ever again in your entire life as awesome as me. Someone who loves you and treats you like a king. I will never understand why you constantly decide to throw me away for these total losers. I’m done trying to figure you out.

The bottom line is you don’t want me.
You don’t love me.
You dont want to be my boyfriend (after a f****** year).
We need to split.

Even though I told you I had “trust” issues given your history of lying to me, you continue to lie to my face (again) saying s*** like: you and michael will “never see each other” if you’re living together because you’ll both be so “busy.”

DO YOU THINK IM A F****** R*****?? OBVIOUSLY YOURE GOING TO BE F****** THE S*** OUT OF EACH OTHER SEVERAL TIMES A DAY.

If you thought you had *any* chance with me at all, why the f*** would you even think I would be cool about having you move in with him?

One minute you’re telling me that you can’t hang out saturday because youre working at mcdonalds from 11am-5pm, then minutes later you magically change your story and say you’re working from 11am-2pm… so you “might” be able to hang out with me.

I’m done with the b******* and mind games. Who the f*** would put up with that? You give me no choice…

You use to love hanging out with me, but recently you are suddenly “too busy”… and you go out of your way “looking for excuses” not to hang out with me.

Everyone knows that suddenly being “too busy” is code for “interested in someone else.”

You don’t tell someone “I might fall in love with you” or “Maybe I’ll be your boyfriend.”

Obviously if you *want* to be with someone you will make it happen…just like you’re trying to make it happen with michael. I’m not stupid.

When I asked if you wanted to move to Mt. Morris because of michael, you responded “No, not exactly”….then a minute later you admitted you wanted to move in with him!! WTF!!

HOW CAN YOU JUST LIE LIKE THAT TO MY FACE? IT’S PATHALOGICAL LYING. I thought you were better than that.

The icing-on-the cake is that you didnt even make an effort to f****** call me AFTER I TOLD YOU that i missed having you call me every day. I feel like you totally threw me away again and discarded me like trash. I’m not giving you a fourth chance. You’re obviously more interested in pursuing a “relationship” with Michael than with me. You can’t have it both ways.

And it p***** me off when you refer to me as your sugar daddy. A sugar daddy would have left you a long time ago and would never put up with all your b******* drama.

Why did you even bother getting back together with me if youre just going to ignore me and call me once a week… AND GO BACK TO YOUR OLD WAYS OF TREATING ME LIKE S***?

You refuse to have “open communication” with me, and quit frankly I feel totally abandoned and neglected (again).

Why aren’t you texting ME for 4 hours while YOU are hanging out with michael? THE ANSWER IS OBVIOUS.

I gave you 3 f****** chances and im sick of it. I’m serious this time. We need to end.

Every single day that goes by is a day wasted where we could have bonded. You’re drifting further and further away towards Michael. Obviously you made him a priority over me. Now it’s time for me to find a new twink and make him a priority over you.

We need to end this, and f****** break up. I dont want you hurting me anymore.

And some relationship advice…if you want to date Michael the PROPER thing is to break-up and end our relationship BEFORE dating other people.

We need to mutually end this. And I mean a “permenant” break-up. I dont want you trying to crawl your way back into my life several months later after your s*** always fails…. or when you start feeling sorry for yourself when you realize what you’ve done. God gave you a brain like evryone else, and you KNOW exactly what you’re doing.

We use to spend hours on the phone every single day. We use to chill 4 times a week! That’s t
…that’s the Tim I knew and loved. Relationships are a two way street. I shouldnt be the one chasing, initiating, and making things happen all the time.

How the f*** do you think I feel when you’re “chasing, initiating, and making things happen” with Michael? F*** that s***. Nobody would put up with that b*******. You should have gone out of your way to apologize and “make it up to me” after I took you back from giving me the silent treatment (twice).

You knew this was my last week before I had to work full time, yet you would rather hang out with Michael. You didnt even care to call and see how my training went. You’re an a******.
I not interested in having any type of relationship with you while you are f****** Michael every single day, and “seeing” other guys. That just won’t work for me. I’m just not gonna be on the back-burner or second place in your life. I dont want to be your back-up boyfriend. And even if I decided to be your boyfriend, do you seriously think I would trust you after all this s***??

I’m monogamous and I don’t intend to date more than one person at a time just because that’s what you want to do. There are plenty of other twinks who would kill to have a loving boyfriend like me. And honestly, YOU should be the one chasing me.

I’m done with this s***.

I don’t believe in “open relationships” that so many losers in the gay “community” love to embrace. No thank you. Not interested. Good bye. Those “relationships” are based on a foundation of quick-sand and will always fail. I want something real. I’m not going to be forced into a “relationship” I don’t want to be in.
Think about it… how am I supposed to feel being in bed with you & making love to you, then knowing when you get up the very next day you’re going to be in bed with someone else f****** the s**** out of them (unprotected) and getting the s*** f***** out of you (unprotected)?

That doesn’t work for most people, and I don’t feel bad at all for expecting you to be faithful and committed to me. That’s called a normal & healthy relationship. “Friends-with-benefits” or “open relationship” (sluts) will never work for me.

So let’s end this mutually, and on good terms with no hard feelings. We’ll always have the good memories, but from now on I don’t want to know whats going on in your life anymore. I don’t want you to call me or contact me… not now, not 2 months from now, not a year from now. Delete me from your life. Forget you ever met me. This is *your* choice.

I already told you in my previous 8-page letter (which you obviously havent read) that I’m not…
..your back-up boyfriend when your other dates fail. You need to chose your priorities.

Life is all about choices and consequences. You chose Michael. You chose Jason. You didn’t choose me. You’re wasting my valuable time. We need to end this now with a “clean break” …a permenant break… for life.

Obviously that’s what *you* want and it’s what *YOUR* actions are telling me.

As you said, why would you want to be my boyfriend when you can get all the benefits of being my boyfriend without having to commit. I should have ended this b******* the first time you f***** me over with Jason.

I wish you well.

Good bye,

~Greg

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Answer by Stoner Girl
How many people have to say “yes” before you just go ahead and send it? Seriously sweetie, you’ve posted this same thing AT LEAST 3 times.

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