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Question by jason: The best way for me to break up with my girlfriend?
Alright so im pretty sure, not 100% sure, but still pretty sure that im ready to break up with my girlfriend who i have been with for 11 months. There is two problems im having, one is i dont know if i really want to truely break up with her, and if i do i dont know the best way. Ok so i find my gf attractive, but she tends to get on my nerves quite often. but she is very caring which is why i think i want to stay with her. shes my first serious gf so maybe theres someone out there thats better for me and i just dont know it. next is going about breaking up. I feel that doing it in person is the most respectable way, but over the past couple months i have realized that i am an awful speaker and the words that come out of my mouth never sound the way they did in my head. When im put on the spot i always get jummbeled up and i sound like an idiot. So i was thinking of writing a break up letter, that way i can think of all the reasons i want to break up, and put them on paper. But i feel like a break up note is one of the worst ways to end a relationship, especially one that has lasted so long (for me personally). please help? 
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Answer by Carrie
You should always break up in person. Anything else is cowardly. It doesn’t matter how eloquent you are–she’s not going to file your breakup speech in her fond memories. Tell her you think you’ve gotten too serious and want to see other people–and expect her to think you’re being a jerk–because you kind of are. It doesn’t sound like you have any real reason to break up with her, except that you want to play the field. She’ll get over it eventually, and you’ll both find someone else.
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If you have to question whether you want to be with her or not, it is most likely not.
You’re right, talking it out in person is the most respectable way. Set the mood and get everything off your chest. Suggest you two could still be good friends (if you think that is possible). It might sound really hard, and a couple of minutes might feel like hours, but you have to get this off your chest and go find whats right for you.
And who knows – she might be feeling the same way.
A note about Carrie’s answer: No, wanting to play the field is not a terrible excuse to break up. Who wants to live their lives thinking about what could of happened if they didn’t settle for less? Its the only way to appreciate what you have.
Well if you are considering breaking up with her than you know it is the right thing. If you didnt want to break up with her you wouldn’t have thought about it in the first place. Break up with her in person, be a man. I know it is hard but you will earn a good reputation. She might cry but don’t let that discourage you. Once you are broken up with her cut off all contact with her so both of you can get over each other. I tough and heart breaking but good luck .